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复ă匝ăŽĺäşşăĺ°éăă复劌ăťăŠé˘ĺŠçăä˝ă
čŚăăăŤăçšăŤă复ă匝ăŽĺäşşă弽ăžăŞăăă¨ăăçśćłăŻăéˇćçăŤčŚăŚçľĺŠçć´ťăŤćŞĺ˝ąéżăĺăźăĺŻč˝ć§ăéŤăă¨ăăăă¨ă§ăăăăăŽçľćăŻăäťăŽĺ¤ăăŽčŚĺ ďźĺĺ Ľăćč˛ăçľĺŠćşčśłĺşŚăŞăŠďźăăłăłăăăźăŤăăä¸ă§ăăŞăććăŞăă§ăăăźăăăźăŽĺäşşă¨ăăé˘äżăçŻăăŚăăăă¨ăŻććé˘äżăŤăăăŚăăŞăéčŚăŞăă§ăăăăă
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1. ĺäşşé˘äżăŽĺš˛ć¸ďź
复ă匝ăŽĺäşşă弽ăžăŞăĺ ´ĺă匝ăăăŽĺäşşă¨ćéăéăăăă¨ăŤĺŻžăăŚä¸ćşăćăĄăăăă复劌éăŽćŠćŚăŤçşĺąăăĺŻč˝ć§ăăăăĺŽéăŤç 犜ă§ăŻăă匝ăŽĺäşşăçľĺŠçć´ťăŤĺš˛ć¸ăăŚăăăă¨ăă复ăŽčŞčăăé˘ĺŠçăŽä¸ćă¨ĺźˇăé˘éŁăăŚăă
2. ăŤăăăŤă¨ăăŚăŽă˘ă¤ăăłăăŁăăŁăŽĺźąä˝ĺďź
ăăźăăăźăŽĺäşşé˘äżăčŞăăŞăă¨ăăŤăăăŤă¨ăăŚăŽĺ
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3. ĺŤĺŚŹăä¸ĺŽďź
ăăźăăăźăŽĺäşşé˘äżăçšăŤç°ć§ăŽĺäşşé˘äżăŤĺŻžăăä¸ćżčŞăŻăĺŤĺŚŹăä¸ĺŽăŽčĄ¨ăăăăăăŞăăăăŽăăăŞćć
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ăŤćăŞăăăŚăăĺŻč˝ć§ăăăă
4. ăłăăĽăăąăźăˇă§ăłăšăżă¤ăŤăŽéăďź ĺĽłć§ăŻä¸čŹçăŤăçˇć§ăăăĺäşşă¨ăŽéă§ćć çăŞăľăăźăă茪ĺŻăăćąăăĺžĺăăăă复ă匝ăŽĺäşşé˘äżăçč§ŁăžăăŻĺ°éăăŞăă¨ăăăă匝ăŽăšăăŹăšăä¸ćşăŽĺĺ ă¨ăŞăĺŻč˝ć§ăăă
ă§ăŻăăăŽç 犜çľćăč¸ăžăăŚăăŠăŽăăăŤčĄĺăăă°čŻăăŽă§ăăăăďź ç§ăĺŽčˇľăăŚăăŚăăăăŞăăŤăăďźă¨ćăŁăŚăăďźćŚçĽăç´šäťăăŚăăăžăă
1.ăžă㯠ăăźăăăźăŽĺäşşé˘äżăĺ°éăăďź
ăăźăăăźăŽĺäşşăĺŽĺ
¨ăŤĺĽ˝ăăŤăŞăĺż
čŚăŻăŞăăăăăŽé˘äżăŽéčŚć§ăĺ°éăăăçšăŤçˇć§ăŻăăăźăăăźăĺäşşă¨éăăćéăŤĺŻžăăŚăă¸ăăŁăăŞć
庌ă示ăăăăŤăă
2. ĺ
ąéăŽĺäşşăä˝ăďź
ç 犜ă§ăŻç¤şăăăŚăăŞăăăĺ
ąéăŽĺäşşăćă¤ăă¨ăŻăŤăăăŤăŽçľćă埡ăăĺŻč˝ć§ăăăă严ćšă漽ăăăăăăŞç¤žäş¤ć´ťĺăŤĺĺ ăăăă¨ă§ăĺ
ąćăŽĺäşşé˘äżăč˛ăăă¨ăă§ăăăŽă§ăŻăŞăăăă
3. ĺéĄăćŠćăŤĺŻžĺŚăăďź
ăăăăźăăăźăŽçšĺŽăŽĺäşşă¨ăŽé˘äżăŤä¸ćşăĺżé
ăăăĺ ´ĺăŻăăăăćŠăăŤăĺťşč¨çăŤčŠąăĺăăĺéĄă大ăăăŞăĺăŤĺŻžĺŚăăăă¨ă§ăĺžă
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4. ĺ˘ççˇăč¨ăăďź ä¸Ąăăźăăăźăĺäşşă¨ăŽéŠĺăŞĺ˘ççˇăč¨ăăăäžăă°ăĺ棲çć´ťăŽăăŠă¤ăăźăăŞĺéĄăé庌ăŤĺäşşă¨ĺ ąćăăŞăăŞăŠ
čŚćšăĺ¤ăăă¨ăăććă¨ăŻäşäşşăŽé˘äżăă¨ăăčăćšăŻăăăćĺłă§ăŻĺšťćłăăăăăŞăă§ăăăçžĺŽăŤăŻăăăăăăćă¤ç¤žäźçăăăăŻăźăŻăçšăŤĺäşşé˘äżăăçľĺŠçć´ťăŤĺ¤§ăăŞĺ˝ąéżăä¸ăăŚăăăŽă ăă¨ă
çľĺąăŽă¨ăăăććăçľĺŠăŻăĺăŤăäşäşşăŽé˘äżăăçŻăă ăă§ăŻăŞăăăäşă¤ăŽç¤žäźçăăăăŻăźăŻăŽçľąĺăăĺłăăăăťăšă§ăăăăŽăăăăăžăăăăăŽčŚçšăăčăăă¨ăăăźăăăźăŽĺäşşé˘äżăĺ°éăăĺ ąćăŽç¤žäźçăăăăŻăźăŻăć§çŻăăŚăăăă¨ăŻă嚸ăă§éˇçśăăăé˘äżăŽăăăŽĺ¤§ĺăŞčŚç´ ăŞăŽă ă¨ćăăžăă
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1. é庌ăŞäžĺčĄĺďźăăźăăăźăŽä¸ććä¸ćčśłăçŁčŚăă常ăŤéŁçľĄăĺăĺăăă¨ăčŚćąăăăăăŞčĄĺăŻăç¸ćăŤçŞćŻćăä¸ăăŚăăžăă
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2. ĺäşşăŽćéă¨çŠşéăĺ°éăăŞăďźé˘äżăŤăăăŚčŚŞĺŻăăŻéčŚă ăăăäşăăŽĺć§ă¨çŹçŤć§ăĺ°éăăăă¨ăĺć§ăŤĺ¤§ĺ
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3. äťäşăćĺŞĺ ăŤăçśăă
ăăĄăăäťäşăŻéčŚă ăăăăă常ăŤé˘äżć§ăăăĺŞĺ ăăăă¨ăăăźăăăźăŻäžĄĺ¤ăćăăăăŞăăŞăă
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ăăăžă§ĺš¸ăăŞé˘äżăéˇçśăăăăăăăŽăăžăăžăŞćŚçĽăčŚăŚăăžăăăăăăăăŠăă ăĺŞĺăăŚăăŚăăäşşéĺ壍ăŽăă¨ă§ăăăăčĄçŞăăăŠăăŤă辡ăăăŽăŻéżăăăăŞăă§ăăăăçšăŤăćéˇĺżĺăăčŁ ĺăăäşşăŞăăăăăăŁăĺéĄăăăŁăłăšă¨ćăăé˘äżă俎垊ăăăăăŤĺźˇĺăăŚăăăăă¨ćăăŻăă§ăă
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1. ăŻăźăŞăłă°ăăŚăłăżă¤ă ăč¨ăă
ăžă大ĺăŞăŽăŻăćć ăéŤăśăŁăŚăăçść ă§çĄçăŤčŠąăĺăăă¨ăăŞăăă¨ă
ĺ ˇä˝çăŞă˘ăăăźă
ç 犜ăŤăăă¨ăćć ăč˝ăĄçăăçść ă§ăŽčŠąăĺăăŽăťăăăăăĺťşč¨çăŞçľćăŤă¤ăŞăăăăă ăăăĺžă§čŠąăăăă¨č¨ăăŁăąăŞăăŤăăăŽă§ăŻăŞăăĺż ă芹ăĺăăŽćéăč¨ĺŽăăăŽăĺă
2. ăç§ăă丝čŞăŤăăăĄăăťăźă¸ă使ă
ă¸ă§ăłăťă´ăăăăłăŽç 犜ăŤăăă°ăćšĺ¤çăŞăłăăĽăăąăźăˇă§ăłďźăăăŞăăŻăă¤ă...ăăăăŞăăćŞăăăŞăŠďźăŻé˘äżäżŽĺžŠăŽĺ¤§ăăŞé厳ăŤăŞăă
ĺ ˇä˝çăŞă˘ăăăźă
äžďźăăăŞăăŻăă¤ăé ĺťăăăç´ćăĺŽăăŞăăŽďźăâăç´ćăŽćéăŤé ăăă¨ăç§ăŻĺ¤§ĺăŤăăăŚăăŞăăăăŤćăăŚăăžăăă ă
3. čŹç˝ŞăŽ5ă¤ăŽč¨čŞă使ăăăŞă
ă˛ă¤ăŞăźăťăăŁăăăăłă¨ă¸ă§ăăăĄăźăťăăźăăšăŽç 犜ăŤăăă¨ăĺšćçăŞčŹç˝ŞăŤăŻ5ă¤ăŽčŚç´ ăăă
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4. ă˘ăŻăăŁăăŞăšăăłă°ăĺŽčˇľăă
é˘äżăŽĺéĄăč§Łćąşăăéăčăăă¨ăŻčŠąăăă¨ă¨ĺăăăăďźăăăăŻăă䝼ä¸ăŤďźéčŚă
ĺ ˇä˝çăŞă˘ăăăźă
ç 犜ă§ăŻăăăźăăăźăăćŹĺ˝ăŤçč§Łăăăăă¨ćăăă¨ăćşčśłĺşŚă¨é˘äżăŽčłŞăĺä¸ăăăă¨ă示ăăăŚăăăăăăĺŽç§ăŤă§ăăă°čĄçŞăăăăăćéˇăăŽăăŁăłăšă
5. ĺ ąéăŽçŽć¨ăćăĺşă
ĺ§ĺŠăŽćä¸ăăäşăăăćľăăŽăăăŤćăăăă¨ăăăă ăăăăăăăăĺŽéăŤăŻĺăăăźă ăŽä¸ĺĄă§ăăăă¨ăćăĺşăăă¨ăéčŚă
ĺ ˇä˝çăŞă˘ăăăźă
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6. çŠççăŞă¤ăŞăăăĺ確çŤăă
éč¨čŞăłăăĽăăąăźăˇă§ăłăé˘äżäżŽĺžŠăŤăăăŚéčŚăŞĺ˝šĺ˛ăćăăă
ĺ ˇä˝çăŞă˘ăăăźă
ç 犜ăŤăăă¨ăçŠççăŞćĽč§ŚăŻăŞăăˇăăˇăłăŽćžĺşăäżé˛ăăäżĄé źă¨çľăłă¤ăă埡ĺăăăăăĄăăăç¸ćăŽć°ćăĄăĺ˘ççˇăĺ°éăăăă¨ăĺćă
7. 俎垊ăŽĺĺźăä˝ă
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ĺ ˇä˝çăŞă˘ăăăźă
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